Just now, at 51, I have had my first jury experience.
I had been called for jury duty before, but was excused because I was breastfeeding an infant.
And then I did that a couple of more times, and cared for a 90+ year old to boot.
My emotions this week probably were not helped by a sinus infection which made me feel like I'd been run over by a bus. Or the early, early starts, in order to feed the critters and get to the county courthouse by 8 o'clock the first morning, 9 o'clock on the other days. It put a serious dent in my coffee time each morning and the slow and gentle start to the day to which I am accustomed.
But there it was, fail to show and be in contempt of court. My self and some 110 other folks, (based on juror numbers, it sure seemed like only 50 or 60 people actually showed) showed up diligently to do our civic duty.
It began with a note about parking. Park in the parking garage, two blocks down. Courthouse has poor parking situation.
Parking garages do not fit my van... never have, never will. So, first duty of the day is to park illegally and go inside and beg, beg, beg for a parking pass, so I will not get a ticket every day that I'm there.
We know they ticket you there.
Tommy got a ticket while paying the taxes. He parked in a blue parking area... the parking areas this week, were green and white and yellow. I think they repaint them each week, in order to provide more ways to interpret who can be given tickets. I mean, really... they have to make money somehow.
It would be really, really awful to have to pay a ticket to park each day, to do a duty for which I have no choice.
So, I go to the door. I get in this long, long, long line. Everyone is pretty nice and patient, lots of folks seem nervous. When I get to the front of the line, it's kinda like being at the airport and the TSA. Drop your keys (which they thoroughly inspected) and your turned off cell phone (which they thoroughly inspected) and your purse. Which they searched with such a vigor that the man ended up holding a tampon in his left gloved hand while flashing a flashlight among my necessities... you know, a book, a comb, a lipstick, 47 cents (cause that's what I could find in the floorboard of the car) and my jury papers and my identification. Also, and very important later in the story, my zipper bag, which I move from purse to tote to backpack with even more basics. Hmmmm....
So, I think, I'm going to be well protected here.
There you go, young lady, move along through the metal detector. (Hey,,, he gets extra goodie points, he said 'young lady'.)
Not going to detail every moment, but we get the standard "we need to know some stuff about you" run around and we swear to tell the truth and be honest and all that stuff.
Then we go through the process of being chosen for juries. Three dockets a day, up to four (that's how many courtrooms there are) cases per docket, and 6 jurors each case. The first day, I was chosen in the middle of the day for a case. A 4th time of driving under suspension. HUH?
I continually shook my head and looked at the other jurors to see the really pointless reasons why we were called to serve. Sometimes, the proper procedures had not been followed... sometimes, the system worked beautifully. But always, we were treated kind and courteous, by very professional folks whose job I now appreciate so much more than ever.
But, we're gonna move forward to day two. On day two, I determined that I had never in the last 25 years or so, had to sit still for so long a time and be quiet. So, I inquired with some knitters who said, "sure you can take your knitting' "I did, a few months ago" So, I pop my knitting in my bag and go stand in line. The same bag contents of the day before, except add knitting. Tiny size 2 double points, plastic ones (like you can take on planes) in a preemie baby cap project. Just a handful of knitting, to help me bide the time.
Well, folks,,, you'd have thought I had carried in contraband... actually, that is exactly what the lady called it...
She called my knitting 'contraband'. In a LOUD voice. She questioned my motives and pointed out that I might try to stab someone with the 4 inch bryspuns.
Please take them back to your car. For this I am grateful! Would hate to lose my favorite little baby needles.
So, I go back to the car, drop the knitting off and return to the line.
I stand in line again. I was certainly going to be late, but it doesn't really matter, because we never started on time. In fact, we ran about 45 minutes late for each and every docket. But it did make me anxious... I could imagine that the one time I am caught with contraband, that would be the time they started promptly.
I got back to the head of the line. Went through the routine... to discover that
the little one ounce containers (that you can take on airplanes) of body spray (which I had in my zipped bag) was... are you ready.... it was "contraband"..
If you need more drama, reread the above two paragraphs, but insert different words.
Round 3 contraband, a sting stick... you know, the little kind you keep in your purse for stings, with lidocaine...
Round 4 contraband, There in the bottom of the bag, my little multi tool. even I know this is contraband.
Sigh... by this time, I figured it out.
Go to vehicle, open door, pour contents of bag on driver's seat. Retrieve a book out of the floor
and return to stand in line again.
I was not late...
In fact, I had time to share the story with my fellow jurors, some of whom had watched round 1 through 4 with much amusement. By the time you've spent several days in close confines, you're all buddies... you want to all go out and celebrate together. My seat mate said "yeah... those earrings you're wearing look kinda pointy"
Shhhhhhh.... I don't think I have it in me to make a 5th trip back through the line.
Things I learned:
I never needed my identification. All that security,,, and I never had to prove that I was, indeed. juror 104.
Don't take knitting needles to the court house,,, or multi-tools, or anything liquid.
You can however, take matches (so you can smoke) and ink pins (which are more dangerous than my knitting needles).
Don't plead 'not guilty' when you darn well did do it, especially not when you're gonna admit that you did it, but that it 'wasn't' your fault'.
Jurors are nice folks. They're all in the same boat you're in...might as well entertain each other.
If you beg and plead, you get parking privileges.
Do everything in your power to stay out of the court system.
Be grateful for a judicial system that works and that we live in a country where you do have rights and freedoms that are protected by the constitution.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Rocking chairs on the porch
So... yesterday, I got a phone call from a friend that I'd not heard from or seen in several years.
A friend with shared interest that I simply have not pursued keeping up with and that's a shame.
So, because it was in the high 70s and beautiful and because the dog was trying to distract me by chewing on toys (read this as pulling the fluff stuffing out and decorating the living room with it), I went out and sat on the porch.
Now my porch functions as a room in the house about 80% of the year. It has some vintage 1940's wooden rockers and a table and chairs and a bookcase. It has, in the winter months, a firewood stack and presently, I believe there are three bicycles out there.
My favorite place to sit is on the two seater rocker, with my feet propped up on a 'table' made of a peach crate. The peach crate table should have a post all it's own. For another day.
So, I put the phone on speaker, put it on the table, picked up the knitting and rocked away... blissfully ignorant of anything around me but catching up with the friend on the other end of the line.
And, in my absence of presence of mind, I must have rocked with a vengeance, because just as we were winding down the conversation... I rocked myself right off the porch.
Bloop... Chair, woman, knitting...all... right off into the bushes (and the ashes, as someone had emptied fireplace ashes there).
Tail over teakettle,,,
it happened before I could figure out what the noise was.
Luckily, nothing was broken or harmed very much, except for my pride.
I was laughing too hard, and trying to extricate myself from the chair/ashes/bushes/knitting to explain what had happened. The pup thought that this must be a new game, so she entered the fray to provide a good amount of licking and frolicking.
The worse moment came later, when I described for my boy what had occurred.
He, every so lovingly responds, "I need to put a railing on that porch to keep this from happening to my poor old mama!"
Heaven help me! I need a railing!
What is the world coming to?
A friend with shared interest that I simply have not pursued keeping up with and that's a shame.
So, because it was in the high 70s and beautiful and because the dog was trying to distract me by chewing on toys (read this as pulling the fluff stuffing out and decorating the living room with it), I went out and sat on the porch.
Now my porch functions as a room in the house about 80% of the year. It has some vintage 1940's wooden rockers and a table and chairs and a bookcase. It has, in the winter months, a firewood stack and presently, I believe there are three bicycles out there.
My favorite place to sit is on the two seater rocker, with my feet propped up on a 'table' made of a peach crate. The peach crate table should have a post all it's own. For another day.
So, I put the phone on speaker, put it on the table, picked up the knitting and rocked away... blissfully ignorant of anything around me but catching up with the friend on the other end of the line.
And, in my absence of presence of mind, I must have rocked with a vengeance, because just as we were winding down the conversation... I rocked myself right off the porch.
Bloop... Chair, woman, knitting...all... right off into the bushes (and the ashes, as someone had emptied fireplace ashes there).
Tail over teakettle,,,
it happened before I could figure out what the noise was.
Luckily, nothing was broken or harmed very much, except for my pride.
I was laughing too hard, and trying to extricate myself from the chair/ashes/bushes/knitting to explain what had happened. The pup thought that this must be a new game, so she entered the fray to provide a good amount of licking and frolicking.
The worse moment came later, when I described for my boy what had occurred.
He, every so lovingly responds, "I need to put a railing on that porch to keep this from happening to my poor old mama!"
Heaven help me! I need a railing!
What is the world coming to?
Boy, does the time fly by!
Not sure exactly where January went.
Went to school yesterday to discover that in one short month, the cabin fever crankies had set in on nearly everyone that I know and love.
I realize that might include me as well.
A few points to note:
Winter, where the average temperature is 75 is odd... very, very odd. I LOVE 70 degree weather, normally. I am, however, finding out that I miss the cold clear weather, where the jack frost crunches underfoot in the early morning and you need to run a little to get back to the house when you went to get the mail without a jacket. This has been a 'coat-free' winter. I believe I've worn mine twice.
Writing this, I am sure, will bring on a blizzard of epic proportions, and possibly days of sub zero temperatures and the need to have a fire in the fireplace.
The 70's temperature range is too warm for traditional winter soups and stews most days. I relish the cooler evenings when a pot of soup seems almost right.
Oddities on the farm. After their usual 'winter' hiatus, the chickens commenced laying in early January and presently, I have a broody little hen sitting on a dozen or so eggs. She'll be off shortly, which is a weirdo time for biddies. And it's rather a weirdo thing for me to let a hen have a 'go at it'. Usually, I am the chicken mamma... me and the incubator, that is. Don't know what I was thinking, except that she was so cute, sitting there all fluffed out and cranky as all get out. I sort of 'got' what she was feeling that morning... and I didn't feel like arguing with her.
Have I said that I love keeping chickens? Even when it makes no financial sense, with only a couple of people in the house. I love keeping chickens. Love their personalities and the rhythm that caring for them brings to life.
I've had a busy 'winter', really. For a woman off work and looking for a job, that is.
New friends, with babies to share. An active knitting small group, with beginners, who are not actually beginners at all, to find new and exciting things to teach and learn. A crazy year old puppy.
A spring garden to plan. Rethinking life when the kids are grown and busy with moving on.
I'll try to get back to a regular sharing. I have more than a few photos and things to talk about.
It's just so hard to do, when it's pretty enough to sit on the porch and rock.
Went to school yesterday to discover that in one short month, the cabin fever crankies had set in on nearly everyone that I know and love.
I realize that might include me as well.
A few points to note:
Winter, where the average temperature is 75 is odd... very, very odd. I LOVE 70 degree weather, normally. I am, however, finding out that I miss the cold clear weather, where the jack frost crunches underfoot in the early morning and you need to run a little to get back to the house when you went to get the mail without a jacket. This has been a 'coat-free' winter. I believe I've worn mine twice.
Writing this, I am sure, will bring on a blizzard of epic proportions, and possibly days of sub zero temperatures and the need to have a fire in the fireplace.
The 70's temperature range is too warm for traditional winter soups and stews most days. I relish the cooler evenings when a pot of soup seems almost right.
Oddities on the farm. After their usual 'winter' hiatus, the chickens commenced laying in early January and presently, I have a broody little hen sitting on a dozen or so eggs. She'll be off shortly, which is a weirdo time for biddies. And it's rather a weirdo thing for me to let a hen have a 'go at it'. Usually, I am the chicken mamma... me and the incubator, that is. Don't know what I was thinking, except that she was so cute, sitting there all fluffed out and cranky as all get out. I sort of 'got' what she was feeling that morning... and I didn't feel like arguing with her.
Have I said that I love keeping chickens? Even when it makes no financial sense, with only a couple of people in the house. I love keeping chickens. Love their personalities and the rhythm that caring for them brings to life.
I've had a busy 'winter', really. For a woman off work and looking for a job, that is.
New friends, with babies to share. An active knitting small group, with beginners, who are not actually beginners at all, to find new and exciting things to teach and learn. A crazy year old puppy.
A spring garden to plan. Rethinking life when the kids are grown and busy with moving on.
I'll try to get back to a regular sharing. I have more than a few photos and things to talk about.
It's just so hard to do, when it's pretty enough to sit on the porch and rock.
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